S.Y.K

Guess what today is…..

It’s MONDAY!!! YAY

And the crowd goes wild..

Hopefully, you’ve realized such because, by the time this post is published, the work day will be ending 🙂

It’s none other than you know who – Candace – here for your weekly dose of So You Know. Never participated? Never fear, the guidelines are posted each week. Ready? Ok, good… Here we go…

  • Every Monday I will ask 1-5 questions.
  • You can answer all or just a few
  • Topics range from surface, general topics all the way to in-depth personal topics.
  • To participate you can either answer in the comment section below or create a post on your site and link back to the week’s S.Y.K. post. Don’t know how to link back? Chat with me and I’ll explain how.
  • Last but certainly not least – be honest!

The purpose of S.Y.K. is to give your readers insight to the person behind the blog ❤

As for my answers… you will find my answers below the week’s questions from the previous week’s questions.

Easy enough, right?!



  1. Do you see a therapist? If so, how does doing so influence your life?
  2. What is your favorite part of adulthood? Your least favorite (besides bills)?
  3. Are the government officials of your country trustworthy?
  4. How important, scale of 1-10, are leprechauns in the evolution of humans? 1-of least importance 10-required

That’s all of this weeks version of So You Know and below are my answers from last weeks questions. * read with caution – trigger warning – talk of suicide

  • How was your weekend? Honestly. I am writing this the same day last weeks so you know goes live and my weekend has been hell. I came close to committing suicide, I….realized the truth in the saying “we are not our thoughts” and it has impacted me.
  • Describe the clothes you are wearing now. Is this your normal Monday attire? My normal Monday attire is the most comfortable, stay at home and relax type of outfit imaginable.
  • Do you work a 9-5 job? No, I do not. I work the weekends, holidays, and early in the morning. On average I have two/three days off a week. My job is physically demanding and is reaching the point that I prepare to change careers.
  • Who do you look like, your Ma or your dad? My dad. Blah.

26 thoughts on “S.Y.K

  1. Im very happy you’re here to post Candace. Really. 🙏

    1. I don’t. But I support therapy. I’ve always been a natural mediator. People always tell me stuff. Its gives me a perspective that keeps me level.

    2. I love being a mom, and doing things my way, using my experiences to guide my minions. I dislike the emotional weight It carries though. So I guess the control and the pressure of having that control is hard. One shot to get it right. It I like it too. Weirdo 🙄.

    3. My govt is not. But I am.

    4. Im a fan of the leprechauns. Me and my Irish fam. They really pull the human timeline together. 10s!

    Stay tough lady okay? 💖

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      1. Omg, really, Amy? Even my rotten me? I try to let my personality show through in my words but sometimes I don’t think about it and post whatever spews out. I’ve also realized I can’t grip to tight to what I love because…well, I’ll fuck it up. But that’s ok too.

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      2. Rotten is honest. Facing the worst sides of ourselves with optimism is brave. And that resonates with people. I appreciate the way you navigate. Trying so damn hard to get it right but taking full responsibility when it doesn’t. I’m rooting for you. I want you to succeed. And that all comes from just finding a blog on WordPress that caught my interest. One that has ebbed flowed and changed over the year I’ve followed.
        It’s simple really. You write in a way that makes people care. Doesn’t need to be taught or over thought. 😎

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      3. What can I say. I like reading about moms trying to get their shit together and being fucking honest about it. Take the credit man. It doesn’t need to be fancy. Just authentic. And that’s from my book. Ain’t nothing fancy either.

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