Southern Belle from Hell

Life & Relationships

The Nerve of Some!

Women are so mean to attractive women and in such a pussy-ass (passive-aggressive) way. And I refuse to apologize for saying that.


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Dear Women of the South,

If I don’t know you, don’t look at me in disgust. Yes, I am younger but I am much older than you think. Grow up and get over yourself. Putting other women down doesn’t level you up and it damn sure won’t stop your husband from looking either… You’re the one who accepts his behavior so stop walking around with a chip on your shoulder.

And I say pussy-ass because you don’t have the nerve to say something. And what the fuck would you say?

“Excuse me ma’am but I can’t help but ignore the fact that you are supporting my local business and by the way, I don’t like you”…

You just stand there with judgment written all over your face, with your nose in the air.

Southern Belle?

Try Southern Bitch.

You are not better than me because you are rich. Whoever told you-you were, lied.

I am spending money in your business and you can’t even smile or acknowledge, other than the stalking (thinking I will steal), that I exist?

I’ve been in your establishment more than once. I come quite often. Quite frankly you are rude. I should have known today would be the day, when I pulled up and there was a woman ranting and raving about how terribly disgusted she was because of how you treated her.

You may wanna look at yourself because usually if two strangers have the same negative experience, you need to check your vibe;

Ms. Better than Everyone Business Owner.

 

Sincerely,

An Attractive Woman (that doesn’t want your man)


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P.S.

Obviously this isn’t a generalization for all Southern women. I am a proud, strong Southern woman. The generational gap between women my age and women my mothers age creates a conflict with some Southern women. I can’t speak for anywhere else because I am from the South and this is my experience almost daily with some the majority of white, rich, Southern women. They are judgemental and downright rude. I just want to know who do they think they are? What qualifies them as better?

Can anyone answer that?

I politely (kill ’em with kindness) asked the couple their names so I could formerly address them in my Yelp and Google review but I didn’t bother because once I landed on each site to add my comment, many others had beat me to it.

It wasn’t going to contain nasty language because I have respect but this is my space so I wrote it how it felt.

12 thoughts on “Southern Belle from Hell

  1. Awww women, uh? I am sorry you have to go through this, Gorgeous… I personally don’t get how putting other people down can make one feel better, but a lot of men and women lacking self confidence do it all the time…

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  2. I’m a southern woman proudly born in Texas and lived there most of my life (if I could get back home I would). There is a clear cut difference between southern women and SOUTHERN WOMEN. Unfortunately, the type that is portrayed here is a product of being too prideful and not enough humbling which is like watching a fish walk on land for being in the south. My grandmother would simply tell her, ‘It’s going to be a long fall from your high horse, bless your heart.’ Those southern women aren’t examples of actual SOUTHERN WOMEN. There are ones from money that are down to earth and can chow down at a crawfish boil like one of the guys then there are those. It’s a matter of couth. Sorry for the rant and I’m sorry that was an experience for you.

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      1. Okay… Note to self: Don’t move South. (Kidding).
        In all seriousnesss though… Don’t let that crap get under your skin, you’re better than that. Simply ignore the ignorant ones. By ignoring their actions, you’re therefore pissig them off more than screaming at them.

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